Psychological Abuse & Trauma Bonds in Codependency | Interview with Lindsay Villandry (Part 1)
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Lindsay Villandry hosts a series of discussions with Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes, a licensed professional counselor and educator, who has made significant contributions to the field of mental health through her YouTube channel and 'all CEUs' platform. Snipes' work focuses on making educational resources accessible, particularly in trauma-informed dual disorder treatment, and she has a passion for clinical supervision. She emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing all forms of abuse, including emotional and relational abuse, and the impact of trauma on individuals' perceptions of safety and trust. Snipes also explores the concept of addiction beyond substances, including addictive relationships and behaviors, and the psychological manipulation technique known as gaslighting. She shares a personal experience of feeling gaslit to illustrate the emotional turmoil it can cause. The discussions delve into the misuse of the term 'narcissism' in popular discourse, clarifying that narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a specific diagnosis and that behaviors often labeled as narcissistic may have other explanations. Snipes suggests that personality disorders, including NPD, can be seen as survival mechanisms developed in response to traumatic childhood environments and emphasizes the role of attachment theory in the development of these disorders. She introduces the mnemonic 'CARES' for attachment, highlighting the importance of Consistency, Attentiveness, Responsiveness, Encouragement, and Safety in caregiving. Snipes and Villandry discuss the impact of caregiver attention on a child's emotional intelligence and the importance of teaching children to manage their emotions and tolerate distress. They also touch on the nuances of attachment styles, including avoidant, anxious, and disorganized attachment, and how these styles can affect individuals' relationships and coping skills. The concept of enmeshment in caregiver-child relationships is discussed, with Snipes explaining how over-involvement by caregivers can hinder a child's autonomy and development. Throughout the discussions, Snipes and Villandry emphasize the significance of understanding the origins of behaviors and the impact of childhood experiences on personality development.
Lindsay Villandry hosts a series of discussions with Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes, a licensed professional