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The content segments discuss the environmental effects of betrayal and provide strategies for creating a safe and positive environment after experiencing betrayal. When someone is betrayed, their safe spaces and places they used to go with their partner become reminders of the betrayal. It is important to eliminate negative reminders and add positive triggers in the environment. This can include getting rid of items or scents that trigger negative emotions and putting up pictures of positive experiences or future goals. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of addressing triggers in public, such as sounds or seeing mutual friends, and being compassionate with oneself during moments of grief bursts. Anniversaries and separation can also be significant triggers, and open conversations with the partner about feeling safer and less anxious during these times are advised. In future relationships, it is important to address any triggers that may arise due to past experiences and develop trust in the new partner. The speaker also suggests ways to navigate social situations after betrayal, such as going out as a group or having friends come to the house. During times of separation, tracking apps can be used to ensure safety and trust, but boundaries should be negotiated. It is crucial to address uncomfortable or painful feelings associated with certain places or activities and work towards creating a safe environment for moving forward from the betrayal.
The content segments discuss the environmental effects of betrayal and provide strategies for creati